I can't believe it's been 2 months since my last post. Thanks for your patience.
An update since my Noticing post is that two co-workers (who happen to be sisters) commented in early December within a day of each other, that I was looking really good. It was very kindly given and I said thank you and talked with them both about how great I was feeling. Which I do, I feel very good and I am being consciously mindful about this fact. I'm down 40 pounds since July with a goal of 30 to go.
My lack of writing is not due to a lack of focus or success in taking care of myself during this holiday season. Instead, I will list some new habits that have been working for me:
- getting those 10,000 daily steps in (yesterday was my one fail since mid-July --Mulligan!)
- after one big meal, having a lot less for the next meal
- saying yes to desserts and snacks and sitting down with a plate of them
- passing on foods that don't interest me
- getting my best sleep as much as possible
- Always be moving (I'll explain this one further below)
- meal preparation and planning (especially during those weeks of back to work between Thanksgiving and Christmas)
- continually reminding myself that this is a special time (mid-November-Jan 2) and I can be trusted to be more rigid in my choices once I am done celebrating -- no guilt allowed (and no guilt about guilt either! lol)
"Always be Moving" is something I heard a young YouTuber Mrs. Midwest describe as a way of staying active throughout the day. I would change always to mostly --doing small chores does add up and goes well with the saying "sitting is the new smoking". Even if I'm on my feet making gingersnaps (yes I did that this month and they were a real hit!) that activity counts. I also do quick vacuums and bathroom wipe downs etc. In the past, I cleaned more thoroughly less often, I have really enjoyed the break in the day when I do some little chores that bring me both a burst of activity and a sense of pride in the cleaning itself.
Meal preparation mainly involves lunches and occasionally dinners for work. I have found it is extremely beneficial if on Sunday I have 3-4 "main" lunch dishes prepared. One new main dish I have recently incorporated is chicken, tuna, or wild canned salmon salads with non-fat greek yogurt instead of mayo. I chop up lots of vegetables in it that includes spinach, pickles, carrots, jarred jalapeno, and whatever else I have. Sometimes I pack it as is and eat it with a fork other times I include a low carb whole grain wrap. I also pack a piece of fruit, fresh vegetables (carrots, tomatoes, radishes, with a few bread and butter pickles or a dill pickle or few olives), an ounce of cheese, and some nuts or seeds (a Tablespoon or 1/4 serving). Once in a while I have stay late and eat dinner at work also and I have found Healthy Choice steamers or other similar meals to be an excellent resource. Environmentally they do add a lot of waste which is a concern.
Looking towards 2020 I am offering to anyone interested, to be an accountability partner. I stopped using my app during Thanksgiving but have continued to weigh-in most days. Food logging the first of the year will be important for me and yet I find it difficult to do if I don't have someone looking over my shoulder. I am so proud of myself for giving myself a reasonable but true break from the strict calorie counting I had been doing from mid-July through mid-November. I can't remember ever taking a break from a healthy eating plan until I abandoned it completely due to reaching or nearly reaching my goal weight. Trusting myself is new but I am getting there. What do I mean by accountable? Whatever you want it to mean. For me letting someone know my intentions on a monthly basis and then having a weekly simple check-in would be helpful such as how did it go this week?
January 2020 goals/intentions: do yoga 10 minutes a day 4 days a week (or get 40 minutes in over at least 3 days), walk at least 10,000 a day, take at least 2 - 25+ minutes walks a day, log food, stay between 1200-1500 calories a day aiming to have over 50% or more of foods coming from vegetables/fruits/whole grains and to have 70-80% or more be "clean" non-processed foods, incorporate good fats from olives/nuts/seeds/healthy oils, weigh-in each morning [I am taking a break from short jogs until March or whenever the temperatures are consistently above freezing].
Also moving into the new year I plan to continue to watch Dani Spies videos from her Clean & Delicious YouTube Channel especially from her playlist Health & Wellness & Weight Loss such as this one Clean & Delicious on not eating when you're not hungry. (Note: she has promised a new course at the beginning of 2020- yay team!)
Happy New Year Everyone!
Much love to all,
AmyB
Love it! Your list resonates with some things I've also recently incorporated (passing on foods that don't interest me) as well as some new ideas and encouragement
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I too say, Love it! I feel I am in such a dip / slump, and your post inspires me to think more about thinking about it. Why do I sneak food and feel that better half is not aware? How silly is that?
ReplyDeleteI can be your accountability partner if you still need one; please email me for exactly what you want me to do. I remember you earlier discussing something about why did it take me so long to journal what I eat. I'm wondering if writing it down would help my "oh this little bit is not so bad because it is late and I'm so very hungry [said after work while picking up groceries and seeing rice cakes]" What method do you use to count calories?
anyway = love you lots and appreciate your inspiration.
xo, hlb
I use Samsung Health app now to track calories. It came free on my phone and also allows for weigh ins and water etc.
DeleteThanks for joining our accountable group!